It seems impossible to talk about creating something without bringing a spiritual component into the discussion. I’ve already stated my case that creation is divine. No matter how you define divinity, there is something about making something new that connects you to a power bigger than yourself. The ego can only take you so far, artists are quick to admit that their gift is unexplainable, it comes from somewhere beyond themselves. Why does creativity save your life? Because creation IS life.
A look at the headlines tells us we live in a graceless age so this morning I wanted to write something about Grace, at least as I understand it. In a time where you have to be very careful using church words, least you offend the agnostic or the fervent, I can’t help but think about Grace, it defines my life. Grace has changed the way I look at the world, the way I live, the way I think.
Grace makes creation effortless, it’s when your angels type through your hands, it’s when just the right words come out at just the right time. Grace is the feeling I get on the water, when I am surrounded by dolphins and immersed in nature. It’s that all too rare feeling that we are connected to all life, that we are all one. Grace is a Mother’s forgiveness, a childs first giggle, a stranger who holds a door for you, it’s someone who knows what you mean even if you say it all wrong. Grace is answered prayers, it’s the love of your life.
Grace lasts longer than happiness, it trumps anger, it overcomes loneliness. Grace is not a temporary feeling, more than any single emotion; it is a state of being. Grace enhances emotion, it makes life better, it trumps the self. Grace is your soulmate, it’s your muse, it is your life preserver.
Throughout history the smartest minds have argued whether grace is given or earned. I’m not bright enough to join this debate, except to say, I have done almost nothing to earn grace yet it flows to me in an endless river. I’m certain that those who try to parcel out Grace or who tell me I am not earning my share are defining Grace differently than I am. I know when Grace is there, I know I will have a better day if I remember to look for it, I know that my bad days are the days when I forgot to look.
We say people “walk with grace” and that isn’t a religious term. We admire people who handle problems with Grace, we say Grace before Thanksgiving dinner, sadly, some people fall from Grace. Grace is an acknowledgment that we are more than animals, that we know how to handle adversity, that we know how to find our higher self. I’m old enough to remember when we said someone was “classy” (not in a Vegas lounge act kind of way), it meant they had Grace. People with Grace light up a room, they attract more light, they channel from a higher place.
Jealousy, possessiveness, ego, anger and hatred are the enemies of grace, yet grace can easily trounce them. Artists who remember to tune into grace hear more notes, paint with more color, they find their work going beyond ego and into the hearts of their audience. (They call it Soul Music for a reason.) When we harden our hearts, grace penetrates the wall.
Grace is the greatest of love and those of us who have lost it are doomed to spend our lives trying to forget it while, at the same time, searching madly for it again.



What a beautiful piece you’ve written, Rick. And just at a time when so many of us need to hear it. Seems the world is spinning out of control lately, so much fear and hate in the media, in people’s hearts.
Thank you for being a voice of reason in a mad, mad world.
May you continue to walk in a state of grace.
Shucks M’am, wasn’t me today, was the angels… Thank you!
I’m a 62 yr. old grammy to 4.8 granddaughters. I’ve been a big fan of Dave Matthews for many years. This song was beautiful!
I’ve been through a lot of grief for 3 & 1/2 years. My parents were killed while crossing a street just after dusk one cold January evening. They both died instantly, we were told. I thought my life would never be the same. I wallowed in self pity for 3 years until another elderly woman was killed at the exact same spot as my parents. That was my cue that my life would now be in transition. I became an activist. I hounded the mayor, went to City Council meetings, talked to someone at the Federal Transportation Authority. Every one I could think of, I haunted and hounded.
My life now has new meaning. The city is making huge changes on that stretch of road and I got the ball rolling. It is my baby. I’ve learned that you should never give up nor give in. Fight till the end. I didn’t have to “fight city hall”. City hall is helping the citizens of the third largest city in PA. God bless you all.
Teri:
Thanks for joining us. Your story touched my heart and I am happy to see that you get the message, it’s about finding your passion in life and I am so happy you found yours. Please keep us abreast of your battle and let us know how we can help!
Rick
The moment I began to truly appreciate what I have and how wonderful life truly is, my perspective changed. The sky seemed bluer. The breeze cleaner. My mind sharper. As a teenager and young adult, my life mainly seemed difficult. It was hard to feel joy. Granted, my life has been filled with some harsh realities. There have been some very large challenges and lessons.
There is a song I wrote when I was fourteen. It has stayed with me for the last thirty years. In this period of time I have come across people that have told me that they play musical instruments. I would ask them if they could play my song if I sang it for them. Either they were unable to or didn’t want to. Either way they generally looked at me as if I were crazy.
Finally I met Tony. There was an instant connection when his sister introduced us. Not only is he handsome, charming, and musically talented. But also, he is interested in my music. Did God put us together in our middle ages? We’ve have both experienced the joy and pain that comes with raising children and long term marriages that fail. Is it Fate that pulled the Tapestry of Life in just the exact configuration that led to our threads crossing?
I don’t feel as though that’s for me to say. I feel something bigger than myself. I don’t have to define it for it to be real. If there is omnipotence and an omnipresence, than it is by definition beyond my comprehension. I have only to allow myself the Grace to accept the gifts I am given. And, the strength to realize I am deserving of all the Grace I receive each and every day.
Thanks for sharing your grace with us Shari!
This is the secret of life. It is a core fact in every religious. It means the truth.
Wonderful post, Rick. Thank you!
It seems that no matter what I read of yours…it truly speaks to my spirit and my heart…I am so glad to have found your site and I thank you for sharing your heart…this latest post has touched me deeply…esp. the song as it speaks to what I am going thru right now….Thanks again…
That means a lot Angela, thank you! That song is up there for a reason, I empathize. I hope you are ok.
Rick